so, today someone said that i needed to not wear low cut shirts because i have a boy chest, and...

so, today someone said that i needed to not wear low cut shirts because i have a boy chest, and that i have a bad hair cut, and that i look like a boy

apparently they were joking but it hit things i’m insecure about pretty hard. i think they were joking but it still feels weird and not good.
i was feeling pretty confident about myself, too.